I plan to write an article on this topic in the near future given that I have been living it since 2011. Married to my wife who is 20 years younger for over 5 years now. Initially when I started dating after my first marriage ended I was looking for a very active sport oriented individual. Most of the women who met or were friends with that ran, hiked, rock climbed and were into cycling were younger. I was just looking for a person that shared the same passions and could keep up.