I strongly believe women are a light house in this crazy mixed up world. Sadly young men are not trained in manners and respect today as they were in the past.

I was raised to say yes ma'am and yes sir to anyone who was older than myself. To hold the door open for those that followed and help any person up who had fallen.

Sadly this is missing in today's society. When I first met my wife she said she was with me because she wanted a man and not a boy.

When I met her 10 years ago. I asked her if she could have coffee with me sometime and asked for her number. She later told me she turned down men who made a similar request because they always tried to give her their business card and said, "hey give me a call if you want to have coffee".

That said women could be better teacher at what they want and need. Many let their insecurities take over and settle for men who are not nice, have no future and don't respect you like they should. They hop into bed way to soon and they do not lay down the rule of the relationship at the start then wonder why things did not work out.

You are beautiful and deserve to be respected and honored by anyone you desire to have a long term relationship.