John most people get too serious in a relationship beofre they truly know who that person is. THat happened in my first marriage and swore that I would not make the same mistake. I dated my second wife five years beofre we got married. I joke that she kept proposig to me but the ring was not big enough. LOL

We have been imarried for almost 10 years and I am more in love with her now then when I started dating her.