Nice well written accurate articles. I might be one of those men you is of the smaller population who does notice the details, the shoes, makeup, lingerie she is wearing. I use some girl friends who would text me on what shoes I they they should wear for an event. I think part of it was a tease and the other was an appreciation that I cared where most men don't.

That said I was reminded of a woman that I met and had a serious relationship with. She was not the most stunning or the one that had the sexiest outfit but there was a look that appealed to me. She turned out to be a well know landscape artist and had a style that fit her personality.

The first impression is always important but being kind and being yourself is more important.