You bring up some very good points that men don't even consider.

When women say "I told him a thoudsand times and he does not listen"., oh he heard you, its that he does not agree with you are that he doesnt want to do what you are asking him.

I was always in the garage for my first marriage. It was my escape room. My ex would say "you never spend time with me because you like your Shelby Mustang more than you like me". Of course that is the kind of words that just made me want to stay in the garage longer.